Sometimes, marriages, even when they don’t last, give you family that does. My Always Brother-in-law Bob is memorable for many reasons. He plants a mean vegetable garden and rides an even meaner Harley. Bob has a friend who used to be a high-powered sales-rep. He took a year off from his job to do charity work at 12 villages around the world (Peru, Ethiopia, Sri Lanka, you name it). When he got back he quit his job and started a charity, Orchids of Light, to support the self-help projects in the 12 villages. As Bob says, “Needless to say, he is a little crazy. But it is a good crazy.”
Bob mentioned to him once that he had seen the movie “The Way”, and would like to walk the Camino de Santiago. In June, his friend called him and said he knew someone who was going to do the walk, and would Bob like to walk with her? At the time , Bob didn’t know anything about her. He found out later that she was 28 years old and gorgeous. Bob, happily married to the love of his life for the past 40-some years, is the father of three remarkable kids , the grandfather of six, and the beloved master of several dogs along the way. “Gorgeous” might not be a word he would use to describe himself.
He has spent the summer training to be able to walk about 18 miles per day. He still doesn’t know if he will be able to walk that far – at least after the first day. As he says, “The problem is blisters and the pounding that your feet take. It takes me about 60,000 steps to go 18 miles. But I think I can do it. I’m only doing two weeks of the Camino – about 200 miles. Ana plans to do it all – 500 miles and almost 5 weeks.”
He and Ana will meet his friend and the author Paulo Coelho in St Jean Pied de Port for a party the night before they start the walk. Paulo wrote “The Alchemist” , the “Pilgrimage” and about 20 other books. The Pilgrimage is fiction based on his experiences on the Camino de Santiago. He lives in St Jean, and Bob’s friend knows him.
Bob says, “You might wonder why I, a non-religious, non-spiritual atheist, is doing a pilgrim’s walk. I don’t really know the answer, other than I’m fascinated by people who are religious and spiritual and I like the Spanish culture, rural villages, old churches, etc. In short, why not.”
Ana (and Bob) will be using the walk as a fundraiser. If you do donate, 100% of the funds go to the villages. Nothing for overhead, salaries, or anything else. Please forward to anyone who may be interested. Bob will be posting a daily (maybe) video blog on the Orchidsoflight.org Web site during the camino.
Here is the promo video: http://orchidsoflight.org/?page_id=1034
Buena suerte en su camino, Roberto. Te amo y te admiro mucho. Tu es loco, pero un bueno loco.
Kris F
August 28, 2012
This is a wonderful mission of love and I’m so glad to hear your “framily” is still in your life. Blessings on the walkers. Outstanding post!
morristownmemos by Ronnie Hammer
August 28, 2012
We saw te movie, “The Way,” so this post was meaningful. what a wonderful project to be involved with; there’s so much need in this world.
If you read a past post of mine, “That can’t be your name” you’ll know about my brother, who works to support an orphanage in Kenya, through SHAREAFRICA.org. We are sponsorig our third child through SHARE. ANother of the many worthwhile projects in which to get involved.
Travel Spirit
August 28, 2012
That is on my bucket list. I read The Alchemist…loved it!
Betty Londergan
August 28, 2012
I love this SO much — a) because I already love Bob from the way you describe him; b) because I LOVE Paulo Coelho and can’t believe he is going to meet him; c) because his wife would let him go off with a gorgeous 28 year old on a 200 mile walk; d) because Rosie the Blogger (Wondering Rose) did this walk a few months ago, wrote about it and i just LOVED that! I am definitely going to follow his journey … thanks for the sweet post!!
Carol R Craley
August 29, 2012
As “older than dirt” and out of shape as I feel ~ I think I would at least attempt 100 miles a day for the opportunity to walk with Paulo Coelho. What a guy, what a wonderful experience and opportunity to do good works!
pegoleg
August 29, 2012
What a wonderful thing Bob is doing – I wouldn’t have the nerve.
It amazes me when family members bring someone into our fold, command us to love them, then order us to leave them when the marriage doesn’t work. It’s wonderful that he is your always brother-in-law.
Audrey
August 29, 2012
What an awesome experience and I love that they’re fundraising for the people in the area while they’re at it! Safe travels to Bob and Ana!
theRipeProject
August 29, 2012
An inspiring (and challenging) tale. I will follow their journey. Thanks for sharing!
Deborah the Closet Monster
August 30, 2012
It is a beautiful thing they’re doing, and I’m glad I had a chance to learn of it through you. Thank you. I’m subscribing to comments so I might be reminded to follow their adventures, “and such.” (Those last two words are (a) applicable and (b) Li’l D’s favorite at the moment, so I had to throw them in here.)
Carl D'Agostino
August 30, 2012
My 2nd marriage was 22 months of pure horror. But the 2 kids and 5 grandchildren were a valuable gift. Kind of like Solomon who was the product of the evil licentious union of parents.
amaliabarragan
August 31, 2012
The way changes your life. I heard that many times and I was lucky to experience it. Now, I really want to do it again with my young daughters, it is at the top of my bucket list.
My two cents for you Spanish sentence: Tu eres un loco, pero un loco bueno.
thanks for bring to my memory such experience.
Rich Geisel
August 31, 2012
Dear 4440. Thank you for posting the story about Bob and mentioning Orchid. We invite all your followers to learn more about our mission and why Bob decided to become “a root of Orchid”. Muchas Gracias. I have also attached the link to one of his 13 “Camino Bob” videos. You may want them all to share with your friends as they get released over the next 2 weeks. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IA-RLGeP804