I created my blog in April 2010 and wrote my first post in May. For awhile, I didn’t get much of a response, and when I did, I usually didn’t comment (I think I thought writers shouldn’t fraternize with readers.). In June, I started to get a couple comments. I responded. Walker (delicacies.wordpress.com) and Wendy (writerwoman61.wordpress.com) found me in June. Thank goodness. In July, I posted something about my GPS, then flew to London to visit my daughter. The next day, my post was Freshly Pressed and a couple thousand people read it. It’s a good thing I wasn’t around. I would have been hell to live with.
Since then, I have a long list of bloggers I follow, and I am grateful that people follow me or even just find me. I rarely know what I’m going to write about until my fingers make contact with the keyboard. And I’m always walking a fine line between wanting to release the eccentric thoughts that have held my brain hostage since early childhood and wanting to express the serious thoughts that have somehow managed to coexist with them.
I never tire of writing. But I do tire sometimes of not seeing a goal ahead for what I write. I’ll have moments when I think blogging is, in some ways, like Facebook or Twitter, but without a word limit, which makes it even worse. And I don’t do well without positive reinforcement. When I was thirteen, I sent a short story to Seventeen Magazine. I got a letter back, saying they couldn’t use that particular story but wanted to see more from me. I never sent them another story. About 10 years ago, I attended an intensive writing workshop. I was working on a novel that was at least ¾ complete. The instructor told me how wonderful my writing was, and I believed him, until he started making moves on me. I never finished the novel. You might say I get easily discouraged.
A few days ago, WordPress sent me a wrap up of all my stats so far. It was called “Your 2010 Year in Blogging.” On the WordPress Applause O’ Meter, it placed me in the “Wow” category. If this were “The Price is Right” or “Wheel of Fortune,” I’d be worth at the very least a set of matching Barcaloungers, which I could relax in until it was time to leave for my all-expenses-paid trip to Rio. My blog has been viewed 12,000 times. WordPress tells me that if each viewing was a person flying in a 747, I could fill 29 747s. This is erroneous accounting for several reasons, but it’s still an interesting thing to imagine. Except then I started thinking about what kind of snacks they would serve on all those flights, and I got totally distracted and ended up just deleting the email and going into the kitchen to find something to eat.
What all this means is that I keep playing. Sometimes after I post and the comments come in, I feel like I just won the lottery. A couple times, I’ve felt like I just picked Door #3 and got an old mule. Most of the time though, I feel like people don’t think it’s a waste of time to read my posts, and I know that reading theirs brings something to my life that I didn’t have before. For now, that’s enough to keep me going.
duke1959
January 5, 2011
I’m glad I found you. You don’t behind your words. many do. I look forward to reading what is on your mind. By the way is that a picture of you?
lifeintheboomerlane
January 5, 2011
Ah, I wish.
Kathryn McCullough
January 5, 2011
I may barely be a boomer, but I do love your blog–proud to be among your numbers in 2010. This posting/commenting thing is a fascinating form of communication–And thanks for so faithfully reading my blog, as well. Your comments always mean to much to me
Kathy
lifeintheboomerlane
January 5, 2011
Thanks so much, Kathy. And yes, the posting/commenting is a fascinating form of communication.
Marion Driessen
January 5, 2011
Renée, I for one am glad you’ll keep on playing 🙂
And I’m still a bit mad about the dude that tried to come on to you, in stead of taking your writing seriously. Stupid man!
Do you think you will ever finish that novel?
lifeintheboomerlane
January 5, 2011
Thanks, Marion. For several years, I deluded myself that I would finish the novel. The truth is that I am much better at short stories, articles, posts. It’s that pesky tiny attention span that I am always dealing with.
Marion Driessen
January 5, 2011
Writing a novel will absorb your time, attention and dedication for months, more likely years. I can see the problem in this.
As long as you keep writing and sharing, all is good 🙂
Debbie
January 5, 2011
I’m glad I found you, Renee. You have an interesting perspective on many topics, and I enjoy reading your posts. My Blog-o-meter, too, was set to “Wow;” wasn’t that encouraging? When I started my blog, I didn’t think I’d enjoy it as much as I do — nor was I prepared for meeting so many fascinating people.
lifeintheboomerlane
January 5, 2011
Yes, the “Wow” was encouraging. I do get frustrated that I see plug ins/whatever on other blogs that I like a lot, but my operating system (computer or brain, I don’t know which) won’t let me do it.
carldagostino
January 5, 2011
Lady in picture relative of the Rocketeer? One of my most very favorite super hero movies. Set in 1930’s. Gotta see if fan this genre.
lifeintheboomerlane
January 5, 2011
Whoa, I’ve never heard of that. I was actually trying to find a photo of those 1930s films with the women strapped to plane wings (getting insurance must have been a bitch) and this one came up.
Emily Jane
January 5, 2011
This was a lovely post though I’m very curious where you got your “Year in Blogging” from – I’ve seen a few of the airplane results around and thought it would be really interesting! Perhaps it is for self-hosted WP blogs?
I’m truly glad I found your blog and I love that your reason for writing is simply to have your life that much more enriched by others. Traffic be buggered – even if I didn’t write, my life too is also better having found lots of people online 🙂
Happy new year!
lifeintheboomerlane
January 5, 2011
Thanks, Emily Jane. The email just popped up a few days ago. I assumed everyone got one. There was even an option to post the entire thing onto your site so that everyone could read it. Maybe they are sending it out in batches. Yours would have to go beyond “Wow” status! Happy new Year to you too.
missing the mom gene
January 5, 2011
I found you this summer as I began building my RSS feeds and “stalking” my favorite blogs, lurking in the shadows while contemplating my own blog. I took the leap last month and so glad I did. Everyday I look forward to writing, and like you, not sure what it may be. But it has been the “push” I needed to get back into my own work (fiction short stories and memoir (like everyone else!!)) and continue developing my voice. Love your stories and honesty!
lifeintheboomerlane
January 5, 2011
Thanks so much. I love the title of your blog. My friends and I have comiserated that although we certainly produced our share of children, we all felt at times like we were missing the mom gene. I’ll check you out!
cr8df8
January 5, 2011
I know I should be more with it, but how does one “build their RSS feed”??? I feel a Google coming on.
Joyce
January 5, 2011
Renee, your stats are awesome and impressive. I am so, so proud of you for your determination and persistence. Now if those hits on your blog would only buy our book, well, omg, we’d sell thousands of books!
lifeintheboomerlane
January 5, 2011
And then we could actually afford to fly on a plane!
Patricia
January 5, 2011
I am glad you write–and congrats on the WOW!
lifeintheboomerlane
January 5, 2011
Thanks, Patricia. Blogging has many benefits for many people.
cr8df8
January 5, 2011
You make me wish I was a Boomer. For all the wrong reasons, of course, but there it is.
lifeintheboomerlane
January 5, 2011
I’ll tag you an honorary Boomer. How’s that?
cr8df8
January 6, 2011
Yay, much better, thanks!
lifeintheboomerlane
January 6, 2011
And just think, you get to do it without knee replacement!
writerwoman61
January 6, 2011
Hi Renée:
Thanks for the shoutout! I’m so glad I found you and all the other talented writers I follow here in Blogland! You are truly a brilliant poster, and one of the funniest women I know!
Hugs,
Wendy
lifeintheboomerlane
January 6, 2011
Ah, Wendy, you made my day (although the post wasn’t intended to gather kudos)!
merrilymarylee
January 6, 2011
I’m so pleased to be in one of your 747’s because I do enjoy your posts!
lifeintheboomerlane
January 6, 2011
Thanks, Mary!
Allison
January 6, 2011
I suspect what you found to eat in your kitchen was much better than any snacks you would have been served on your hypothetical flight.
WordPress got it right– your blog is ‘wow’, as are the comments you leave.
I’m glad I found your blog. And that you decided to fraternize with your fans :-).
lifeintheboomerlane
January 6, 2011
Thanks, Allison. Total digression here: Now Husband Dan and I have been watching “Lost” on Netflix. We just finished it last night. It suddenly occurred to me that 1. I have no idea what the entire show was about 2. these people spent a lot of time on planes and never got snacks.
Archie Harders
January 6, 2011
Keep writing.
I’m working on reading a blog about reading blogs.
lifeintheboomerlane
January 6, 2011
Now, that would be funny. Especially when you gave up everything else in life to read other people’s blogs and ended up like Howard Hughes only without the money.
Judson
January 6, 2011
Until I found WordPress and started blogging, most of what I wrote on paper generally ended up getting tucked away in a drawer. I had no “audience” so to speak.
By getting into blogging, I’ve been able to fulfill my personal need to express myself and I’ve also had the satisfaction of finding out that I do in fact, have an audience. WordPress blog stats confirm it!
And I’ve also found that there is a nice synergy to be had through visiting other blogs (like I’m doing right now) and beginning a relationship through comments.
Come over and “see me” sometime!
Your fellow boomer …
— Judson
lifeintheboomerlane
January 6, 2011
Well said, Judson, and thanks for visiting. In my case, I never wrote anything down. My erratic thoughts just ran amok in my head. Some of them spilled out of my mouth at times, causing people to laugh or just stare at me. One friend said, “Is everything that happens to you in your life a hilarious/dramatic story?” I thought about it and said, “Yes. Otherwise life would be f-ing boring.” I did take a look at your bog and will be commenting.
territerri
January 6, 2011
I was just adding my own two cents in the comments of another blog in regards to the effect of comments. Basically what I said was that I wasn’t sure why, but comments seem to fuel our fires. But I think you’ve hit the nail on the head. Comments are positive reinforcement. Positive or negative, if someone takes the time to give feedback on something we’ve written, then we’ve accomplished our goal. We’ve grabbed their attention. And I suppose that is why I keep playing as well in spite of having asked myself many of the same questions you do.
lifeintheboomerlane
January 6, 2011
Yes, exactly. And thanks for the positive reinforcement!