Ari Seth Cohen is a stalker, of the finest kind. For some years, he has been following people on the streets of New York, and asking them if he can take their photos. His motives are simple: to find ordinary people of extraordinary style. Given that we are talking about New York, here, and given that Ari Seth Cohen is a superb photographer with a keen eye, the results are pretty mesmerizing. Add to that Cohen’s affinity for people over age 50, especially women, as his subject matter, and you have not only a fashion statement but a statement about the beauty and the power of older women.
I discovered Cohen several years ago, through his ridiculously popular blog, Advanced Style. It is impossible for me to treat his photography in a casual way. It is a feast for the eyes and the mind. His subjects are mini works of art. Not surprisingly, many have gone on to become minor celebs, due to Cohen photographing them over and over.
Cohen has now produced a video, Advanced Style, highlighting a handful of his most popular muses. They range in age from 50-something to 90+. I ordered the video immediately, and gathered a handful of friends one evening last week for a pot luck and viewing. It was a memorable evening.
The film was filled with eye candy, as well as private interviews with all of the women and a bit of their back stories. Their backgrounds and their current lives are as varied as one might assume any handful of people plucked off the streets of New York would be. What they all share is a fierce belief that what they look like is a statement of who they are. These are women don’t own jeans or sneakers. They have never seen the inside of a Chico’s. And most rarely follow the conventional rules of fashion. Each creates her own path and takes joy in every step.
One might argue that they are a bit too self-absorbed, a bit too focused on the external, at the expense of the internal. It takes an enormous amount of time (and often, money) to assemble the types of wardrobes these women have assembled. Often, when they aren’t parading themselves on public streets, they are on the hunt: in thrift shops and specialty stores, at estate sales, in exotic locations, all to gather the hats, the clothing, the accessories of their lives.
I found the message of the film to be the opposite. These women fall prey to the same downside of aging we all do. Some of the scenes are difficult to watch, to see the pain and disability behind the facade. One women dies during filming. And, as another points out, “But what a way to go. At Fashion Week!”
Unlike most women, they don’t mourn the loss of their youthful appearance. They are too busy living in the now. A now filled with color and creativity and joy. One of them said, “When I dress the way I do, it brings more joy to the world.” After I smiled at the egotism and naivety of the statement, I applauded her. There are few people on the planet, let alone older women, who feel such power.
These women do not wear black. They shine.
Book Club Mom
November 22, 2014
These ladies have the right attitude. It makes me feel good about getting older!
Life in the Boomer Lane
November 26, 2014
Yes, yes, yes!
Gale Molinari
November 22, 2014
Reblogged this on galesmind and commented:
That is the way to do it!!
Life in the Boomer Lane
November 26, 2014
Thanks for the reblog, Gale!
katecrimmins
November 22, 2014
Wish I had the courage!
Life in the Boomer Lane
November 26, 2014
Get rid of all the mirrors in your house, first.
divorce1943
November 22, 2014
I too wanted to buy the video but they don’t send it to Canada or US anymore. I don’t really know why. What a shame. Perhaps it has to do with taxes etc. I love them!
Life in the Boomer Lane
November 26, 2014
After I read your comment, I began to search, Sure enough, you can order the download, but not the DVD. hat a shame.
btg5885
November 22, 2014
I have no problem with people who want to present the nicest version of themselves. To me, the key word is “themselves.” There are certain celebrities that are frightening looking ( men and women) as through science have become a caricature of their youthful look. But, at the end of the day, it is not my life, so people should do what floats their boat.
Life in the Boomer Lane
November 26, 2014
I think these women look far more fabulous than some celebs I can think of.
JackieP
November 22, 2014
Ah, I wish I had the courage to do what these ladies do. More power to them!
Life in the Boomer Lane
November 26, 2014
Can you imagine if everyone were brave enough to wear whatever they wanted to? The streets would either be a feast for the eyes or make you want to go screaming into the night.
Deborah Drucker
November 22, 2014
I have been aware of Ari Seth Cohen and Advanced Style for a while as well. Great idea to put him on your blog. These women are showing us a type of self expression. Like an artist. And I think it is a push back at a world that likes to diminish and marginalize. And it brings them joy so who cares what anyone else thinks. I really appreciate that Ari Seth Cohen appreciates older women.
Life in the Boomer Lane
November 26, 2014
I love that about him. He said the most important people in his life were his grandmothers, and that’s why he is so attracted to these older women. He loves to hang around with them. Bravo to him!
wordsfromanneli
November 22, 2014
Too advanced for me!
Life in the Boomer Lane
November 26, 2014
Laughing. I do love to look at them.
Mercyn
November 22, 2014
I also follow Seth’s blog. I do, however, favor Chico’s and own and wear jeans, but am a true believer in the philosophy live for today, enjoy, and be yourself and, at our advanced Age, flaunt it!
Life in the Boomer Lane
November 26, 2014
We might as well flaunt it. However the world thinks of us will start with hoe we think of ourselves.
Art Becomes You
November 22, 2014
I want to like that when am old. they look stunning.
Life in the Boomer Lane
November 26, 2014
Yes, stunning!
menomama3
November 22, 2014
Fucking brilliant. I want to be them. Now.
Life in the Boomer Lane
November 26, 2014
And you can! Of course, these women spend an enormous amount of time collecting their pieces and dressing themselves.
Valentine Logar
November 24, 2014
When you look good, you look good.
We all need to adopt this as our mantra, every single day.
Life in the Boomer Lane
November 26, 2014
Yes, what a great statement.
Patti
November 24, 2014
“I never wanted to look young; I wanted to look great.” — Exactly!
Life in the Boomer Lane
November 26, 2014
I’ve always felt exactly like that.